Strategy

Social Narratives

Short, personalized stories previewing a situation.

Action panel

What can I do today?

Small, doable steps for right now, this week, and when to bring in a professional. Educational only — not individualized medical or behavioral advice.

Step 1

In the next 10 minutes

Pause and take three slow breaths together — regulate yourself first.
Reduce sensory load: lower lights, turn off background noise, offer quiet space.
Drop non-essential demands for the next few minutes. Safety and connection first.
Offer a preferred item or activity, or a familiar comfort routine.
Use fewer words. Try a visual, gesture, or written cue instead of talking through it.

Step 2

This week

Track what happens before, during, and after for 3–5 days (ABC notes).
Look for patterns in sleep, hunger, sensory input, and transitions.
Test one small environmental change (lighting, timing, warning before switches).
Introduce or review a visual schedule for the parts of day that are hardest.
Plan a 15-minute connection time daily, without demands, to fill the tank.

Step 3

Questions to ask a professional

BCBA or behavior specialist

What might this behavior be communicating, and what function does the data suggest?
What antecedent changes and replacement skills would you prioritize first?
How will we measure progress, and how often will we review the plan together?

Speech-language pathologist

What communication modes (spoken, AAC, gestures) fit best right now?
How can we model language during real routines at home?
What signs of progress should we look for over the next month?

Teacher or school team

What does this look like at school, and when does it go well?
Which accommodations or supports are already in place, and what could we adjust?
How can we keep communication consistent between home and school?

Step 4

Helpful printables

Step 5

When to seek urgent help

Any injury to the person or others, or damage that puts safety at risk.
New or worsening self-injury, especially to head, eyes, or with objects.
Signs of dehydration, fainting, extreme lethargy, or a very high fever.
Sudden loss of skills, seizures, or a large change in alertness.
Suicidal statements, plans, or intent — or a mental health crisis.
You feel unsafe or unable to keep the person safe by yourself.

In the US, call or text 988 for mental health crisis, 911 for medical emergencies, or Poison Control at 1-800-222-1222. Outside the US, use your local emergency number. This page is educational — it is not a diagnosis or a treatment plan.

What it is

A calm, first-person story that normalizes feelings and previews events.

When to use it

Before novel or anxiety-inducing events: dentist, haircut, new school.

When NOT to use it

Do not use to teach masking.

Examples

"Going to the Dentist" story with photos.

Evidence

Moderate evidence; widely used.

Behaviors

transitions meltdowns